Two Onions

Relationships are like onions. Chopping an onion renders it chemically reactive. Aromatic compounds burn the eyes, inducing the flow of tears. When the volatility is too much, you have to part ways from the Onion, leaving the room. Sometimes, you have to part ways from your Other. This blog is my perspective on my own leave taking from a chemically reactive relationship with a narcissist. Read on if you are not afraid of words that may chop, cut, or react with your lachrimal ducts.

Friday, March 16, 2018

You Know You're Not Healing from Narc Abuse When

You Know You're Not Healing from Narc Abuse When....
You are definitely stuck in some sort of time warp that repeats itself every few days or weeks.

You Know You're Not Healing from Narc Abuse When...
You revert to childish, junior high behaviors.

You Know You're Not Healing from Narc Abuse When...
You dwell continually on all the ways the planet, your kids, everyone would be better off without you. You know should fight this but today it just seems so much more true.

You Know You're Not Healing from Narc Abuse When...
You feel like you are stuck in the same place as a year ago, except all the head clearing from a long hike has gone far, far away.

You Know You're Not Healing from Narc Abuse When...
You don't feel like you ever left the web and there is still no way out.